Hey…..is it you ??

Hey…..is it you ??

Hey friends, it’s me again with an interesting topic. Well this time it’s about “FRIENDS”, I believe you all have lots of friends right ?

Even I had lots of friends but we have to go through many hardships and difficulties to achieve our Goal our DREAM that we have and in that course we have to take various decisions which even include our friends. From the start of our schooling age we are taught how to be disciplined and well mannered. We also learn how to make new friends but the main problem is that we are not taught how to maintain our friendship and that’s the main reason behind our emptiness. As we grow up we make many friends and loose many. After some time we are left with no one, we like to remain  lonely and keep listening to old songs just because we don’t have someone with whom we can share everything that’s going on in our life.

Inspite of all this these things we still search for a friend a Best Friend ans whenever we meet someone a common question arises in our mind and that is Is it you  ?

Will you be there for me whenever I need you ?

Will you be my someone whom I can call BFF ?

In childhood, friendships are often based on the sharing of toys, and the enjoyment received from performing activities together. These friendships are maintained through affection, sharing, and creative playtime. While sharing is difficult for children at this age, they are more likely to share with someone they consider to be a friend As children mature, they become less individualized and are more aware of others. They begin to see their friends’ points of view, and enjoy playing in groups. They also experience peer rejection as they move through the middle childhood years. Establishing good friendships at a young age helps a child to be better acclimated in society later on in their life.

We all loved childhood didn’t we ?

Yes we all did and we still want to go back at that time when we were children and loved doing nonsense things but we can’t do anything about that rather than just cherishing those beautiful memories.

You all were thinking what am I saying….Haha, even i don’t know what am I writing but whatever it is we should keep all of our friends close to our heart rather than searching for a new one because as we know Old is Gold.

isn’t it true that we all feel more childish and have more fun when we are having a get together with our old school friends rather than new ones, well that is true friendship. We should cherish it more along with making new friends because it’s the friends we meet along the way that help us appreciate The journey.

7 thoughts on “Hey…..is it you ??

  1. Nice post about friends. Essentially, friendships initiate in our younger years. Childhood is the first time period we start to make friends, and depending on what or who we find acceptable or approachable in that stage of life, shapes our standards to finding a “good” friend leading into our adult years. The early standards we adopt are typically used as a guidance in our older years to better select new friendships.

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  2. Your post has some good points but sometimes your old friends and you grow apart 😔 I lost majority of my high school friends because we were living two different worlds. They went to college right away and I became a mom and wife right away. It was hard to communicate due to uncommon situations and experiences.

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    1. Seriously ?
      Like thanks….I have no words to describe how I am feeling right now. I love to motivate and to get motivated myself, I just write with a hope to deliver something which touches heart… Glad u liked it 😊

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